r/kwarentahin

As the title state, na figure out nyo na ba bakit kayo andito sa mundo? Ano purpose? If so, paano nyo na discover?

Let me go first.

It’s not having everything you want but its being at peace with everything that you currently have, having your loved ones near you and being able to share precious time with them even just by window shopping, having a healthy body that is still able to walk, run, swim and do sports, being able to bring food on the table and share it with your loved ones,being able to travel and being able to keep my faith alive especially in this trying and tempting times.

Ikaw, ano definition mo sa salitang success?

I have no life nor friends…Single at 40, gigising sa umaga papasok sa work then uuwi…hobbies none too..I’ve lost contact with my old friends, tbh i don’t think they value me..otherwise they will contact me..i had my shares. I don’t blame anyone..i just want to have a life and be happy..Any advice would help.TIA

Don't have a job for 6 mos now after leaving a company of 16 years. No bad blood naman I'm really grateful sa company and was very well taken care of. It's just that I had an opportunity to buy a property in the province and just had to manage house construction for a couple of months..kapag di ko pa kasi binili yung 90sqm na land, di ko na sya mabibili kahit kelan. Though right now after the house is already constructed, I need a job to pay the loan, also ofc to eat and live.

Kaso nasa over 300 plus na pinasahan ko resume no call back. I think ATS is automatically filtering age and desired salary

Anyway I have experience in Small Accounting. Accounts payable and receivables, invoices and deals creation, audit and recons. I think my last salary was 70k monthly pero lahat ng ipon ubos dahil kahit sa province ang mahal ng 30sqm na bahay. Plus may loan pa. And ofc I had expenses in those 6mos.

Any leads, please advise, I'm more than happy to apply.

Salamat po

For those who are on dating apps/actively looking for serious relationships, how soon do you ask someone for an in-person first meet up? I am not asking those who are looking for ONS, NSA or whatever you call it these days. This questions is specifically for those who are dating with intention and naghahanap serious relationship and wants to get to know more about the person.

I want to get some insights from the 40s population. We all know na at this age, marami na tayong responsibilities- work, kids, parents to take care at iba pang commitments. How soon is too soon? Too early or too late?

Edit to add & for context: my experience dating with our kalahi was when I was in my late 20s, (talk & text pa lang, analog pa). It was a different time. In my 30s/40s, ibang lahi na since I'm not in PH. Also, different time with soc med and apps. I'm just interested to know how dating has evolve in our culture and to what extent. People will say, "when in Rome, live like the Roman's do". Well, in some cases, there are certain values that stays with us, na kahit ano ka pa katagal sa ibang bansa, mananatili talaga yan within you.

Syempre I slept my Saturday away. On leave for the past 2 days to rest coz work is tooooooooooooo much.

Later will be a full day. Hindi ko alam if matutulog uli ako kasi masakit na ulo konsa haba ng tulog ko.

So much thoughts running on my mind, hindi ko mahabol haha I need to slow down.

How's your weekend?

Mga moments na gusto mo ng cuddle pero yung katabi mo, kanina pa humihilik.

Isang araw sobrang daming energy tapos kapalit non ilang araw na sobrang drained! Ewan ko ba! Pano ba gagawin? Gusto ko na lang umiyak na ewan. Kumpleto naman tulog ko, kumain naman ako, nagvitamins naman ako, sumubok kumausap sa friends, lumabas. Pero ganun pa din. I can't function well. Hay

Hello, if you are a trentahin na may maintenance na or even kahit wala pa but have friends who do, I just want to to know if you have any regrets or learnings you can share?

Anong condition nyo, and how it happened. What do you regret? How much has it changed your lifestyle? How much you are spending per month?

Goal ko is to have perspective about this topic, how it’s affecting your quality and perspective in life. Also to spread awareness.

Pakiramdam ko kung kelan ako mag 40 (few days to go), kung kelan parang super mas mahirap na mag buntis at mag palaki ng anak (if ever), saka ko nafefeel na gusto ko pala mag anak. Nalulungkot ako. Kung meron lang may bubuntis sakin na magandang lahi, mabait walang underlying condition hahahhaha. Gusto ko na talaga 😭😭😭😭

After a failed heartbreak and relationship makes me realize it's better for me to live and love on my own than wishing to be loved and taken care of. Maybe I was unfortunate nor not worthy enough so I just learned to accept my fate.