u/SuccessfulRegister25

ISTJs, how do you think you would feel if you unexpectedly found out you were going to have a child with someone you were not planning a future with?

Would your first instinct be to focus on responsibility and practical planning, withdraw to process it alone, or try to make the relationship work for the child?

And if there was someone else you deeply cared about and she cared for you (not the mother of your child), how would that affect the way you handled it?