Confused
My wife and I of 27 years are separated. About three weeks ago she told me that she has not been happy for a long time and that she needed space for her to figure out what she wants. I did not react well at first. Crying and sobbing which, I now realize probably pushed her away further. After clearing my head, I went to my moms to give the space that she wanted. I realized that we drifted apart, life got in the way and we lost each other. I want to work on the marriage because, we have a good base, never any abuse or infidelity and we still love and care for each other. We are not "no contact", we text almost everyday. I am working on myself during this time apart. I found out a lot about myself and am working on fixing the broken parts. Her, I don't know. I think maybe she wants divorce but, is afraid to tell me or, she does not know what she wants at all. I mean one second I feel like she wants to end it but, the next second she may talk about getting a home equity loan to renovate our house. Why would I do that if I may be getting divorced and why would you ask that if you knew you may get divorced. Very confusing to say the least.