Stop telling unattractive men to go out there and present themselves, this will only land them in the friendzone
Keeps seeing posts about telling unattractive men to go out there and present themselves. Well then that’s just gonna land them in the friendzone. And then you just see all these complaining posts about how to get out of the friendzone.
As a female I am always surprised when a male friend confess out of the blue or express their interest. It always freaks me out and I drop them immediately. Dude, I thought we just share the same hobby and have conversations about it, I consider all these conversations pretty platonic and nothing romantic, I would never be interested in dating you.
And if you are unattractive, a good personality only gets you a friend as far as it goes. Attractiveness is the first thing in dating and without that we are not talking. And if I fit into the female beauty standard thin, fit, well maintained, then I would not want a man that does not fit the male beauty standards.