u/Sufficient_Song_4834

i (F20) weigh 90kg and i’m 173cm tall. Last year I was able to get myself down to 75kg but I was eating like shit and drank all the time. Now i’m eating better and exercising more but my weight is now up. I wouldn’t say I look like how I weigh, but its a bit demoralising. I don’t do heaps of cardio and i’m told that its probably how i’ll end up losing weight. I lift heavy and my gym split is good, so I can’t understand why i’m now the heaviest I’ve ever been. I’m also taking creatine, so i’m aware it makes you put on 1-2kg of water weight. I guess I just need help to figure out how to lose weight. Happy to attach photos of how I look as technically my weight is considered obese but i don’t look obese if that makes sense. Anyways I need help to look more toner for december, help!!

i (F20) am currently in my second year of uni and after a rough highschool experience, i was counting on uni to make my friends and finally have a solid friend group. However, I have found it so hard to make and keep friends, despite what i’ve been told most of my life with people saying you make a lot of friends in uni. I do have a tendency to keep to myself, but once i feel comfortable around people i’m quite outgoing. i think the main thing is that lining up classes with friends is hard, and often i have been left out of functions organised by friends in uni. i guess this rant is just about how isolating uni has felt for me and i was wondering if anyone has felt the same? parts of it has felt the same as highschool and its kinda sad. it doesn’t help also that many of my classes this semester are online, which had made friend-making virtually impossible. anyway, let me know if this is a shared experience