I'm so turned on by this person it might not be normal. NSFW.
I (35F) have been on three dates with him (32M) and we've slept together once.
I don't know what it is about this person's pheromones but i've never experienced anything like it before.
Obviously i know what limerance is and i've had feelings of normal obsessive desire but this is something else. I have had plenty of sexual experiences, multiple long term relationships, many gorgeous short-lived ones, great sex. Its nothing like any of that. It's not even my brain it's my body. In the past when I've been turned on by someone or wanted them it felt strong then but in comparison to this its nothing.
On our first date I was so overpowered by it that we slept together on the first date, normally it takes me a bit longer to even be interested, and the sex was good but its not even that.
Where he touches me anywhere even my arms, all the blood rushes there, when we kiss and I taste his mouth I can't think, sometimes when he's near me I actually can't speak because all I can think about is sex.
The second date I wanted to take him home so badly but he said no, just to tease me.
When I see him, I am literally wet for like 2 days straight after. I don't even want him to be my boyfriend (although he's also a kind and thoughtful person) I just feel so feral around this man I don't understand why this is happening.
Has anyone had this before?? Is this normal???