First year as a HENRY at 29, not sure what to do next
Hey everyone, I'm 28M and turning 29 this month. This is my first year earning at this level, and I'd love to hear from people who've been where I am. This year I'm going to be making $375–400k in W2 income, credits 780-800. While I have a salary, most of it is commission so it varies month to month, some commission checks 10k+ and others 50k+. I also have benefits and a 401(k) through my employer. By the end of the year I expect to have $150k+ sitting in my account. I know seems like a lot, and I'm grateful for it, but nobody ever taught me what to do with this kind of money, and not many people know for that part. I'm the first person in my family to really go after financial independence, so I don't have anyone to model this on.
I live in a HCOL area. Where I live distorts what feels normal when it comes to income and that this amount of income is quite normal for my age, so I try to stay within my means and keep my total monthly spending under $7,500. My only real planned purchases right now are a used car with a solid down payment (35k listing price)
I'm planning to meet with a financial advisor soon, but I want to go in informed rather than just taking whatever they pitch.
I'd really appreciate hearing what you did in your first few years at this income. What would you do with the cash right now? What should I prioritize: maxing the 401(k), a backdoor Roth, a taxable brokerage account, real estate, or something else? Should I look for a fee-only advisor, or is an AUM advisor worth it at this stage? And what mistakes do you wish you'd avoided early on? My goal is to reach financial independence sooner rather than later and would love to just step away from corporate entirely when ready, and I'd value any experience or perspective you're willing to share. Thanks in advance.