Cant cum, need advice?
Young male (20s), I can’t cum during sex and it’s annoying as shit.
Was that way:
On meds/ no meds
my first time/ my most recent/ a lot in between, when I was watching porn/ when I wasn’t
when I was jerking it/ when I wasn’t
when being creative in bed/ doing same old
Condom/no condom
Relationship/casual/friend
Only consistent anticum factor for me has been condoms which I feel like makes sense as they really do restrict a lot- I’ve never cum with one on.
I’ve been meeting some seriously attractive women who are all very fun and cool and I kinda just wish I could enjoy sex more. I’m pretty chill so it’s rarely awkward thank god even regarding this stuff which has become a regular conversation during sex. I guess my 2 questions are:
\- how to make sex better as a dude wearing condoms
\- any ideas about my non-cumming and could I be asexual ir something? I sometimes am like wishing I was getting a better nights rest or doing something else in the middle of sex which sucks. Have I built an expectation that it’s lame or something? I feel like I’m hype at the start every time and just gradually get bummed out by the not cumming thing even if it is still fun during it