u/Sweaty_Ad4425

I think my sugar jar was working. My ex broke no contact this week 7 days. Now im new and have only ever done a sugar jar. I wrote his name and put sugar and cinnamon and water in it then shook it everyday to say my intentions.

On my last post about freezing spells someone was saying dont shake it. Also the info I got about the sugar jar was to dump it out after 7 days. Anyway, I was going to make a honey jar and light a candle over it and write more clear intentions with both our names crossed. People said I don't need to do both on my last post but im just confused and want to have more clear intentions written on the petition and also leave it on my altar and do a reconciliation spell. Im not getting clear answers on what to do. Please help.

Can I do a freezer spell if I don't know who the person is? Im trying to reconcile with someone and after my mom did some tarot readings this weekend I think there is a 3rd party involved. I did a simple sugar jar and Im going to do a honey jar and reconcilation spell but would also like to freeze the other person. The cards between us were very significant on Thursday having me as the high priestess in his heart space and then Friday and Saturday he texted me all day after being no contact. He wasnt willing to commit to the idea of working on us right now but said he was heartbroken and missed me. And now he is being cold and distant again. So im wondering if I should do a freezer spell on any third parties or how I would go about that. We don't live in the same city anymore so I cant really find out who she is right now. It could also be more than one person.

Any tips? Im going to get a baby for him and we have a 10 gallon to start. I bought Aspen bedding and we have a humid hide and dry hide plus a piece of driftwood and water dish.

For now we have an heating lamp and uv light for heating sources.

Am I missing anything?

Ok my son has been in swim lessons for years. He struggles a bit with body control on land and has some balance issues as well. He still cannot swim. I have even paid for private lessons at currents and it barely helped. He loves the water and I know he will eventually figure this out but anyone have recommendations for swim instructors I could call? He's 10.