u/Taliq_Maliq

So guys, I need your input and tell me if am overreacting.

Male and just got married (expecting). One time, my wife got a phone call and there was a woman on the other end. Then, a guy (a husband to the woman) took the phone from his wife when he learnt that my wife was on the call and said 'Simunathawitsa beans zanu? Uli kuti? akupanilira beans-zo yekha-yekha' (and he was laughing all along). My wife sounded and looked pissed off with it when she noticed that I heard what the guy said.

After the call, I asked her to repeat what I heard and she did. I requested for an explaination and she said, she knows the guy as the husband to the wowan who called her and they never had anything to do with him or flirt before.

This doesn't make sense to me coz where was he getting the audacity to speak to my in that manner if they never had any emotional attachment.

I am too quick to give up on things that messes up with my peace and this is one of them.

Am I overreacting? Sucks!

I have a decent amount saved in the bank (standard), enough to buy a car from sbt/beforward at a bank rate not at a parallel rate. But then, the fx scarcity.

How are you guys navigating through this? Is there anyone working within the banking system who can help please...