My friend is so rude about my ESSAs and she expects me to buy her stuff? 😭
So.. I have a friend that constantly harasses me about having essas, and how i don't need them because I'm "perfectly normal". she says "I have mental issues and don't carry around stuffed animal! and since you clearly don't have any mental issues, you DEFINITELY don't need a 'essa'." and she constantly says she has a 'trend essa' bc its "JUST A TREND". like, I'm not going to outright tell her I actually have issues bc she's the type where you never know if she'll blab to someone or if she'll keep it in her huge lump of secrets that she somehow manages to keep hidden. We've been friends for five years. plus, she's 3 years older than me, who is she to bully a younger kid about having a stuffed animal? If i was older than her, it'd be a "ok... well..." but its not that way.
and its also horrifying that she's so mean about it, saying she's a lesbian and a therian? Like, she's part of communities that are supposed to be kind, yet she's over here bullying me for being in a community thats pretty much just as "weird" as hers? I'm also in her 2 communities(though she only knows I'm a therian that isn't allowed to identify one so is supposedly just a otherpaw. she doesn't know I'm in any other community). her response to when she's bullying me and I say "Pfft, says the lesbian therian" is "yeah well what can I say, you're carrying stuffed animals as if you're emotionally damaged when you're clearly not".
that, is the problem with relating to that essa vid i once saw with the title being "pov you have bad mental health but are a genuinely jolly person"
and here is the part where she is asking me to buy her stuff..
Every time we saw a shop selling tails, at fair(which was pretty much every day and fair went 10 days. but she also says it basically every time i see her, so every few days to a week or so) , she would say: "Bro you should buy me a tailll" like.. uh...
- Your mom would throw it away (her: well i would hide it in my bag. me: I am NOT spending almost $30 bucks i don't have, just for it to get thrown away bc you were mistaken, or anything along those lines)
- I am $70 in debt already, and my parents don't even support therians or anything of the sort so i would never be allowed to even get one for MYSELF
- yeah, if I did get a tail it would be for ME first, because NO, I am not supporting my hater ):<