u/Temporary-Composer83

I 60F moved from San Diego to the midwest 11 years ago with my ex for his career. Fast forward and we are divorced and I’m trying to date and meet someone special. I’m so lost and frustrated. I don’t have family we moved to a small town outside Ann Arbor. When I say small I mean tiny. You can drive from one side of the town to another in 5 minutes. I have no family here and feel so lost. Which seems to hinder my ability to connect with people on a deeper level. I have gone out a few times but haven’t met anyone yet I’m connected with. Also I’m struggling on how to even find someone. I tried OLD and it seems everyone is looking for sex. I’m definitely into have an adult sexual relationship but I need to find someone to connect with first. I’m open to suggestions or ideas on how to make this happen for myself.