u/Temporary_Wallaby_96

I have been having very conflicting thoughts about this because my ex whom I had been with for a very long time is pregnant and we were very happy and excited and she was everything I could ever ask for gave me infinite attention love and support we always took little trips hikes etc just things a really healthy couple would do but she had this very big issue with me and women not like I would ever cheat stare or do anything to jeopardize the relationship in that way but it was just weird things like let’s just say we had a girl waitress she would accuse me of looking at the waitress in a sexual way (I never did anything like that because like I explained I would never do anything to jeopardize my relationship) and I would be confused and try to fight an uphill battle about small things like that the bigger issue was my mom and sister tho she had so much hatred in her heart for them because she was convinced that every time they talked to me or just did anything kind normal motherly or sibling type deed for me that they were flirting with me or in her words wanted my male genitalia and ofc that like not true at all and it got to the point where they couldn’t even call me or talk to me about simple things because i knew that it would just be such a big argument and headache later for me to deal with that i just almost didn’t want anything to do with my family and i have always thought it was pretty weird that she had these thoughts but i just never knew what to do because like I stated it was such a amazing relationship besides that little/big thing but i always just would tell her i could possibly do something about it by just being very avoidant towards them and just not giving them attention in which i did for a little while but something’s you couldn’t avoid like your mothers “hey son just checking in on you I haven’t heard for you in a couple days I love you I hope your doing well text” in the mornings or just at random points in the day and that crushed me a little bit because obviously I want my relationship but I also don’t want to completely cut off my family because they never have did anything wrong and my sister would more so just try to be her friend and it’s like she was so blinded by her own delusion that it’s like she couldn’t even see that and I have given push back to her thinking like this obviously to no avail because I would just be told I’m invalidating her feelings I’m such a horrible person I treat her so bad this that and the third but I honestly didn’t and sometimes I would blow up a little bit and say things like your so stupid how could you think this which is not right at all to say but I was so frustrated by this I couldn’t hold it in sometimes. Really wish I could say more and explain the full story on here to get you guys real opinions on this but I’m limited to 3,000 characters womp womp lmk if there’s anywhere I can post the rest of this tho thanks to anyone who shares their opinion