u/Tennis5223

Hey everyone, this might sound like a dumb question but I haven't found a solid answer for it.

Why do people always say that dating at a young age is a waste of time and ruins your future/career? everyone claims you can't lock in if you're in a relationship at a young age.

but for me having a partner actually motivates me to try harder and get better, Why does my brain work like this when most advice says the opposite? or does it just depend on the person?

Another question: are longdistance relationships (LDRs) worth it?

 just got accepted into engineering college, and I want to learn a skill alongside my studies, like coding, But Im scared because what if I learn something in coding that AI can easily replace??
Additionally, where should I start with coding? Should I focus on learning a specific programming language, or something else? Im clueless