Advice Pleaseee
This is more for one of my friends who’s a bride than for me but I’m trying to be supportive and helpful and idk how.
One of my best friends is getting married!!! She’s gonna have a huge bridal party and she’s torn. She has a “friend” who hasn’t been the best to her. She constantly tears her down and makes everything about herself. There’s been multiple occasions where she’s bitched her out and made her cry over something as stupid as turning away to talk to another friend at a bar. Like it’s really insane how she can turn on her so quickly over something so stupid. This friend also has a history of making bad decisions and leaving her friends to clean them up. She’s constantly hammered and a messy drunk and puts all of her friends in uncomfortable and messy situations.
She also has spurts of kindness. Shes planned her birthday parties and even wanted to throw her a engagement party. She’ll pay for things for her and tell her not to worry about it. But it’s all very superficial things.
My best friend’s fiancé HATES this girl and does not want her in the wedding. My best friend also does not want her to be apart of the wedding. She already stressed and doesn’t want to worry about drama or her getting her bridal party in a bad spot. She also already has so many girls and none of the girls in the bridal party really like her. She heard from another friend that this girl is really counting on being in the wedding and is expecting to be asked. We’re trying to think of alternate ways for her to be involved in the day without her being in the wedding party or going on the bachelorette.
Has anyone else had this happen to them? What did you guys do?