u/ThatGuyHasaHugePenis

I've heard people say that we can have a spiritual guide in the spirit realm helping us that is usually a relative that has passed. Could I pay one of you verified mediums to tell me who mine is? I've been on a spiritual journey since before everyone I've been close to crossed over. I want to try to communicate with them myself during meditation that why I want to know who it is. Or what it is. How does this work? I'm an noob.

Can mediums connect to people in the spiritual liminal space? Can they only connect to people not already in a new body? For example, my little brother passed away ten years ago. What if he already reincarnated?