u/That_Patient_9508

hi! im an incoming freshie and kakakuha kolang ng entrance exam kanina, I'm waiting for the result if pasado baka mag push through na ko dito sa Enverga. I'm wondering lang if big deal ba yung entrance exam or for formality lang sya?

Anyway, I'm also considering Malayan Mapua but mas malapit to samin tho mag dodorm din naman ako, And also concern din ako sa tuition fee here if worth it? pls whare your thoughts about this?

I came here for an advice, I'm an incoming 3rd year BSMT student and I failed my Audiometry test required for our Basic Training. I was classified to have a mild hearing loss at my left ear at 30 db while my right ear have normal hearing threshold at 25 db both with dips at 4-8 khz and said to be unfit for seagoing. So due to that concern I approach my professor pn what to do in that case? I was adviced to visit a ear specialist and i did and it says i am still unfit. so, i did my research to find a solution because im afraid that i wouldn't be able to continue my program and I found that based on the ILO/IMO medical guidelines for seaferers, I still meet the accepted qualifications for seafearing. However, since the first Doctor didn't FIT me due to the findings i have, i decided to have a second opinion from a different hospital also because i wanted to fight for my qualifications since it is stated in the ILO/IMO guidelines that i am still fit and its just MILD hearing loss.

The second doctor i visited told me that for him I am still FIT and even ask me if i wanted a medical clearance but we refuse because my school said that they won't honor my second opinion if its from other Hospital, and they will only accept the results from this specific hospital but the doctor i consulted there won't allow me to be FIT. Which i find a bit unfair too, its like im being boxed in this situation that i can't do anything and they already advice me to shift but i'm already incoming 3rd year so i feel like all this time my effort and hardships will go to waste if i shifted to another program, I am close to graduating.

I emailed MARINA which is the current organization i believe that handles the Maritime industry here in the philippines but they still haven't replied. I am discourage and i want to fight for my dreams still. It was said it the ILO/IMO medical guilelines for seaferers that the qualified impression for the hearing test is atleast 30 db for the good ear and 40 db for the less good ear but i scored 25 and 30 db, yes there is a hearing loss but its mild, I am now taking meds too to maybe improve it. But i cant help but be discourage since they ask me to shift already, With these knowledge about ILO/IMo guidelines does MARINA maritime inductry authority recognize this? Help me out pls

i'm in a 5 year relationship, and nung nakaraan lang we had some misunderstanding, we didn't break up that time but he's confused, he said parang gusto nya muna mapag isa and i thought maybe kasalanan ko din, dahil siguro that time super stressed ako, and as much as he is trying to show up for me, siguro na aabsorb nya din yun, Which is diko naman gusto. Fast forward naging okay na kami, but still parang walang nangyari, Pero ako parang na stuck ako don. Feels like i need time for us to talk about what happened pero ayun di nangyayari. Lalong na trigger yung pagiging anxious ko. While him, this time parang mas lumalabas na sya unlike before, i said namimiss ko sya lagi nalang syang nasa labas tho we are constantly talking all day, pakiramdam ko hindi enough yun. He said na buti nga daw lumalabas na sya or may ginagawa syang iba, and i get it. It is better talaga na lumalabas na sya, and madami na nga syang napag kakaabalahan this past few days. While ako, always waiting sa kanya. I'm starting to feel so annoying dahil miss ko sya palagi. And sanay ako na sabihin sa kanya yun, if something bothers me sinasabi ko kaagad, confrontational akong tao. If di okay pakiramdam ko, pinapaalam ko sa kanya, Lalo pag miss ko sya, sinasabi ko. But i can't shut up about it, sobrang daming times kona sinasabi sa kanya na miss ko sya but its genuinely true for me. Yun talaga yung nararamdaman ko, i feel like kulang yung oras and atensyon na na rereceive ko, While he said na he's trying naman daw to give me that. Parang kulang padin kasi para sakin, i feel like im the only one who puta effort na may ma topic kami, and minsan tiktok na sinesend if di nya nabibigyan ng recognition or acknowledgement hindi naman sa naiinis ako pero sinasabi ko sa kanya yun especially if like about sa relationship yun, like a sweet tiktok content. Pakiramdam ko purposely di nya ni rereactan yun, like wala syang gana to entertain yung content nung sinend ko, Parang wala syang interest dun.

I'm thinking of ways na pwede ko gawin para lang ma divert yung attention ko sa kanya. I just can't find any hobbies parang walang spark sakin or nakakatamad yun gawin. I don't know what to do. Ayoko maging annoying sa kanya, i don't what my love to be a burden on him or kaya naman sobrang pressure nabibigay ko sa kanya. But the thought of me not thinking of him anymore or nabubusy ako, saddens me. Para kahit ako ayoko mapunta sa point na yun, i missed him already.

Sobrang clingy ko na and needy, i've been so vocal about it na kahit ako mismo aware na sa sarili ko nakakainis na siguro ako.

what to do to make him want my attention?