u/The1Ginger

Bride says no coats for outdoor wedding (56°F)

I’m supposed to attend an outdoor wedding this October, except apparently I shouldn’t say “invited” because we technically still haven’t received invitations.

Back at Christmas, the couple sent everyone a card that basically said:

“All we want for Christmas is you at our wedding! Please let us know by X date if you’ll be there. Invitations to follow.”

So we RSVP’d to a wedding we weren’t actually invited to yet, I guess?

Anyway, the bride wants the whole wedding outdoors. Average temperature that time of year is around 56°F, so naturally people are planning warm outfits and coats. Except apparently we’re not allowed to wear coats because she doesn’t want them in the photos.

On top of that, guests are expected to dress according to a specific color palette.

The only reason I even know any of this is because she told me directly. Meanwhile, when other guests are surprised by the dress code or the no-coat thing, she gets annoyed and says, “It’ll all be explained in the invitations.”

The invitations that still do not exist.

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u/The1Ginger — 8 days ago