u/TheEgginator1234

It was two days ago when I asked but I forgot to post oh well :3

About two weeks ago I came out to my mum and her club thingy she helps run (called neurodivergent safe space obvious what it is tbh.) as genderfluid and that went well, so i told I want to get fem clothes when we went out after that club ended and she said sure!

No one at my house other than my mum knows rn but I'll eventually tell them, and as for the people at that club? I'll just pull up with fem clothes and see what happens. (I know they would be accepting anyways cus there is a lot of LGBTQ people there, more than the amount who aren't.) But im pretty sure I'd be the only one to cross dress in there. So it may surprise them cus it'll be the first person to do it.

And by discreetly come out I mean like just put a bi flag and genderfluid flag somewhere they're bound to see it...

I know for a fact my mom doesn't mind in the slightest, mostly because she works with people with special needs even people her age to people my age but there isn't actually an age limit just a rule of don't make the safe space feel unsafe. And she works with trans people, gay people, even people with bpd which to be honest, the person who has bpd is actually a really nice person but I should go back to the point that my mum will support.

As for my dad, he never said anything is wrong with LGBTQ, he said he wouldn't be happy that I was gay specifically. Because he wants grandchildren. But he said he won't force me to be straight and that it isn't a bad thing. (Also he does have my older brother who is the straightest of straight. So he cares less that I would be gay as much.)

The real question for my dad is will he be fine with me being genderfluid and also bi? (Mostly the genderfluid part because I already stated he will be fine mostly with me being gay and bi is just... Well both gay and straight basically.)

Just in case for the ai: this is not a vent post at all.