Am I 26M getting Manipulated by my 33M spouse?
I’m 26 M Married to my 33 M spouse, we’ve been together for over 3 years and married for 2 years. Ever since we officially started dating we’ve been having strange events happen to us non stop for years.
For example, I’ve been getting text from random numbers impersonating old relationships/hookups trying to bring up relations or hookups we had in the past as well trying to goat me into admitting I still love them or to have sex with them. If I talk with is person they will send screenshots to my husband and we will have an argument about it. I also would wake up to whole conversations with someone through text messages when I’m asleep (this happens while I’m on my phone and while awake). I also had conversations this entity before and said it wants to ruin my relationship and was sent by my mother. (for some context my mom isn’t accepting of me being gay and hasn’t met my husband, we are not in the best of terms because of this). My husband is as constantly worried if I will cheat on him or leave him and constantly asking if I want to leave him or cheat on him to an obsessive point.
This morning I woke up to a ton of messages from a person I had a relationship with, I saw multiple messages from him
And “I” going back and forth about wanting to hookup. To be clear this wasn’t me and I never Cheated on my husband. Later down the message said he saw my husband viewing is profile while “we we’re messaging”. My husband acknowledged my phone was going off like crazy last but didn’t say anything else about it.
My husband said it’s not him and he gets bothered by these types of messages too. He says it could be paranormal or someone messing with us but I’m not convinced someone would keep this up this long. Am I getting manipulated? If you have any questions please ask