How do I have Jarlaxle attempt to recruit a party member to BD without revealing himself?
Title's pretty self-explanatory, but pretty much, the book says that he tries to recruit them disguised as J.B. Nevercott (which btw, I somehow only just now put together that the initials are Jarlaxle Baenre), but how exactly is he supposed to ask someone to join a nearly drow-only group when he himself is disguised as a human?
I've seen some advice from a ~6-year-old post here, but I was hoping to hear some other perspectives as well.
For context, the character JB is looking at is a changeling bard with amnesia who doesn't remember his original form, the meta reasoning being that I wanted to at least introduce each faction (each of my 4 party members has 2 factions looking to recruit them) and the drow-only rule kinda sucks (like sure, drow-preferred would be fine, but who came up with drow-only?), and the in-world explanation being that, with how much Jarlaxle and all of BD engage in disguising themselves, a changeling would fit right in.
Edit: I just realized I left out the crucial detail that I'm running Jarlaxle as my antagonist.