Come to think of it, isn't it selfish to want your child to take care of YOUR child for their lifetime when you yourself probably didn't have to deal with it when you grew up as a child?
What if i want to have a family of my own and have my own kids that mayyy have an actual life that's worth raising than a practically someone you couldn't even have a meaningful interaction with?
Why impose it on your other children?
Not gonna lie i might start use this excuse intensely although i dont really have a plan to go through it. When people play dirty with your boundaries might as well defend it using ridiculous methods
To be honest the idea of my parents sending my 2 autistic siblings to my house is. Insane. Sorry. I would rather be demonised as the "relative who can't take care of his autistic siblings" than setting my life for a lifetime of misery.
Cant my other relatives step up in the future? Or the state? Do i have to literally move out of state to save myself? Thinking all of this shit hurts.
One day I'll be free.