How do I know if I’m actually Trans?
So, I am currently 18M. I’ve always had thoughts along the lines of being transgender (always wishing I was a girl, etc) and, especially more recently, have embraced a more feminine side to myself, which includes crossdressing, makeup, and more.
Obviously, what you wear doesn’t necessarily dictate gender, but I have been considering actually being a girl more and more.
The main thing that set off this string of dominoes was one time at a party where a friend referred to me as “one of the girls,” which lead to an overwhelming feeling of happiness.
So, I need to ask. Does this actually mean I’m trans?
I’ve always wanted to be a girl, rejected any masculinity, and being affirmed feels amazing, so how can I actually tell?
Also, if I do prefer being trans but am fine either way, is it worth coming out of the closet? I know that I can’t transition any time soon (I go to an all-boys, mostly conservative school)
Sorry if any of this comes off as rude, that’s not my intention, I just want some more guidance from people who have been through what I have.