S*x and corn
My boyfriend that was single for nearly 5 years had a terrible porn addiction I never knew because we didn’t talk about it. Long story short I found out a couple of weeks ago he was watching it I asked how often and he said once a month or whenever there was an “urge” he said it’s a habit and has been trying to get better, I got upset a lot and still do because we haven’t been intimate yet because he’s still a virgin and it felt like he put more effort and was selfish to put these urges first then to do something he says he wants to do with me, he has a very highly sex drive and masterbates a lot he will admit he has a problem with that. But part of me feels so disrespected I told him why it was such a big thing to me and he understood so he stopped. I asked him today if he had watched it again and he said no because he wants to be intimate he also struggles with performance anxiety. Anyways, I feel like all of the porn watching for 5 years has made him like this he thinks the same, he said “It’s hard to fight the urge of not watching it when I’m in the mood because it was a habit and a quick fix” I feel like his brain has become so dependent, fixated and wired on the stuff that we may end up not getting there he gets upset all the time because of it he always says “it makes him feel less of a man because he can’t please me”, I just really wish he knew how much this 💩 is effecting literally every little thing with our sex life and it’s just becoming so popular now it’s so sad 😞