Feel like my wife’s taking the piss
I love my wife. We’ve been married 8 years and together 14. But something isn’t right
The first small thing was a single friend thought he saw her on tinder. She disappeared and never saw again and we let that go.
Then there was our more recent sports team
Tour. She was acting weird for ages. Then we went on the trip and she was determined to have her own room despite me sharing with someone else so the chance of a shared room was there.
After the trip I knew something was wrong. She told me one of our mates had said he fancied her and she felt uncomfortable and that he’d fallen out with her. Then later maybe a few months later when very drunk told me hadn’t done that. She then told me the reason the guy had fallen out with he heard her having sex with another dude. She said she wasn’t true but that’s what he thought she heard.
For reference I think that’s true but guys gone and I forgive her. Although she never owned up.
Now she hangs about with the 18-20 year old boys of our sports club. She even chooses that over coming home with me. She wants to go out with them. She then goes back to some of their houses and has come home 5am or there after before.
I feel like a fool but I guess my question. Is: am I being stupid saying??.