u/Theqween7

Abusive coworker

I have an abusive coworker who’s remote that likes to send me teams messages that are highly inappropriate. Verbally abusive, cursing me out, telling me how horrible of a human I am and the worst god created, $hore, white trash, someone should have killed me, I’m a disgrace to my family blah blah blah. I always respond back “ do not message me unless it is about work matters, I feel harrassed” and he just keeps on going. I guess he’s jealous or wants me to quit. One or the other. He also tells me everyone at the office hates me and I’m unlikable. Idk how I am because I literally am kind to everyone and I’m pretty quiet and keep to myself.

Issue is, we have a training coming up and I have to see him face to face. I’m actually pretty scared to stay in the same hotel as well. I’m going to ask hotel to put me somewhere else as far away from him just incase he finds away to harass me there too.

Any advise on what else to do? I’m about to go to HR if this keeps on going past this training event.

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u/Theqween7 — 1 day ago