Had a long conversation and was ignored, repeatedly
Feel like I’m going nuts so the justno might be me. I talk to my partner about things that bother me, and everytime I get the whaaaa?? I’m just joking or whatever, what do you want me to do?
It’s been going on for so many years and I’m at the point of frustration. Our daughter is having behavioral issues and I’ve been telling him for years that his disagreeing and undermining me, and all the misogynistic jokes, even the way he walks up to me to touch me inappropriately in front of them, the stupid jokes he makes about my body and other things in front of our two young kids, are causing major concerns.
He says he will talk to her when he comes home and then his smug ass makes a joke about how it’s my job to pick up his dirty laundry all over the house in front of her. I get the “whhhaaa I said a code word” meaning instead of “your job” he said “I thought it was baby’s job.” Everything is dismissed, always. I am also having major issues with pain in my knees, caused mostly by a specific action of his that forced me to start putting more weight on one leg so mobility is a problem at this time. I also used to do his laundry but stopped after he wouldn’t put them away himself after I folded it for years.
I smushed the sandwich he just unwrapped and walked away.