Am I the asshole for punching a wall because my girlfriend wouldn’t make me alone?
A little bit of context so at the time I probably just turned 18 and because difficult family situation I did not have my license and we had just moved because her parents kicked us out because unrelated issue and we were fighting neither of us remember what the fight originally was about, but she was yelling and screaming at me and I was just walking away from her. She was throwing cans at me and I was just trying to get away from her and at one point, I walked into the bathroom and she just followed me and I couldn’t get out and we had solid wood walls so I could just punch one as hard as I could because I was just getting so frustrated because this was going on for like 30 minutes or I was just asking her to give me a second. I know my response probably wasn’t the most appropriate but I saw I’m curious am I the asshole in this situation?