u/Think-Arugula7770

Do you guys think desi men usually have to be tall and conventionally attractive to consistently date good-looking non-desi women? I feel like I’ve sometimes seen attractive desi women date average-looking desi guys, but I don’t really see the reverse happen as often with non-desi women. Curious if other people have noticed this too or if I’m just overthinking it. Also, do you guys think there’s a difference when it comes to hookups/casual stuff too or is it easier to hookup with non desi women. I live in america btw. Also what do you guys think the standard is for desi men to date good looking non desi women.

I’m curious what other desi guys are usually attracted to physically and does race/ethnicity actually plays a role in your dating preferences.

Do you usually have a certain type in terms of features, personality, etc.? And do you find certain ethnicities being more attracted to you than others?

Interested to hear honest answers and experiences.

I’ve been noticing more interracial couples at my school and online, especially involving South Asian people. It feels like things are slowly shifting compared to what you’d expect even 10 to 15 years ago.

One thing I’m curious about is whether there’s a gender gap. Like, do you think Desi men and Desi women experience interracial dating differently? Do you think we will be more like east asian men who date less interracially compared to their woman or will we be more like black men who date more interracially compared to their women.

Would be interesting to hear both personal experiences and what you’ve observed in your area. Also what can we do better as western born desis to help us?