u/This-Sir-15

Hi I rushed this spring and unfortunately did not match with a house. Do you have any suggestions for making girl friends outside of Greek life?

I feel like everyone has such an easy time finding a group of friends, but I’ve never had much luck. Most of my friends are older so they are going to graduate next year. I’m worried about not having friends, and I’ve been told I shouldn’t rerush due to being a rising junior. Additionally, I was told none of the sororities are taking COB classes either. Where I am from most girls join a sorority, so I’m really at a loss.

Edit: do guys kiss anyone regardless of attraction?

I(F19) went out with some friends a couple weeks ago. I was plastered and approached by a couple college aged guys.

One of the guys I don’t really remember well but I know he asked for my instagram and idk what but then he leaned in and tried to kissed me, then apologized. I was confused by the kiss and straight up turned away. I honestly didn’t even know his name until I saw his follow request.

Another guy chatted me up a little asking me my name, where I from, major, instagram etc., while his hand is wrapped around my waist and hand. I wasn’t into him and was basically like I’m going to go now. He asked well before you leave can I kiss you? I said no, and he asked why? And I said maybe next time because I don’t really know you.

The next day comes, the second guy straight up unfollowed me and the first guy took a week to accept my follow back. I’m new to clubbing, do guys kiss literally anyone regardless of attraction? I don’t get why the second guy unfollowed me. Did he see my instagram and think I’m chopped😭