u/ThisHabit2138

I (16m) began talking to this girl nearly 3 weeks ago and we became pretty close, going to the garden and sitting there for hours sometimes after school.
The thing is, she is kind of getting closer everyday which is something i dont want to happen. I want to keep a healthy friendship between us but i dont know how to stop the progression in our relationship.
Today she was talking to a friend of hers and she asked me “you dont have a girlfriend do you??”
Which is kind of fine to ask but its just that all the stuff she does concerns me.

I want to make her realize we are just friends nothing more nothing less but i don’t know how.
She is a kind of violent and very very bipolar person.