I need advice please !!
My bf blocked me on Snapchat over a very trivial argument and refused to add me on Facebook. Even after we resolved the argument, he kept me blocked and refused to unblock me.
He also blocked me on Instagram, even though we had never talked there. He actually searched for my account and blocked me while we were still in a relationship. Later, I found out that he had also blocked me on TikTok, even though we had never interacted on that app either. He had searched for my account and blocked me there too.
Whenever I asked him to explain why he was doing this, he never gave me a clear answer. When I asked him to unblock me on Instagram, he refused and eventually deleted his entire account just so he wouldn't have to add me.
Whenever I decided to leave him, he would call me hundreds of times without stopping and try desperately to keep me from leaving. He even swore on the Quran that he loved me and that he wasn't just playing with my feelings. He promised that things would change, but he never took any clear action to prove it.
Our relationship lasted 8 month, and eventually, we kept arguing about this issue until it became one of the main reasons for our breakup.
Another thing that upset me was that he sent me a selfie with a woman he works with. I felt uncomfortable about it, and we ended up having a huge argument. It was the first time I had ever been rude to him in the way I responded, and he got upset, ended the relationship, and blocked me a week ago.
Since then, I haven't called or messaged him at all.
Mhelpy friends are advising me to end the relationship completely, meaning that even if he comes back, I shouldn't talk to him again.
What would you advise me to do? I know this might seem like a silly or insignificant issue, but I genuinely need .