For those who have completed their national service, what was the journey like? Was it difficult? Did you go voluntarily And what was your experience like preparing the file, and how long did you wait until you left?
(im not the victim, im reposting the story so pelple dont fall in the trap of this scammer!!!)
imad_phone_16_ (in tiktok) تشفاو للبوست لي نشرتو هنا قبل ايام نحكي فيه على هذا السراق؟، يلعبها يبيع تلفونات بسومة طايحة ويسرق الناس، راه زاد سرق شحال من طفلة، من فضلكم ماتشروش عليه وانشرو خلونا نشهرو بيه بلي سراق بش مايزيدش يسرق ناس خلاف!! وسينياليو لكونط تاعو!!
أغلب المشاكل التي نواجهها سببها الإبتعاد عن الدين !!
salam alikoum , 3emri 18 w NEKREH TEYAB mat9droch tamno chehal manhbouch , manl9ach fih el mot3a w machi mawlfa bzaf netyeb ya3ni des fois , ih ji makla benina w chaba , MAIS ki netyeb nehs rohi 7zina morah like hello ? people enjoy this ana 3lah lala ? w nkon te3bana bzaf t9ouchi netwel par rapport lokherin , i don't like it , i mean yes ne9der netyeb bach neb9a haya w kolch w ne3ref some basics bsah manhbouch ki netfkro n3ya , but i want to cook for my children ida kan 3ndi fi rl most9bal
any thoughts how to love it and accept it ?
be kind 🤍
Assalam alikom everyone,
I hope everyone is doing great.
I recently got married Alhamdoulilah. at a young age (which tbh is way harder than I thought it would be…. in so many different ways as well)
I have had some issues recently. Mainly I got to know my wife better (her life/how she was raised ext...);
and I would like to have some outside perspective. Thank you.
So to give you more context.
We met around November (she was asking ing about some advice in her career) and we were talking on and off mainly on that subject. Reaching December I noticed messages were getting out of hands and we talked about more subjects that weren’t related to anything. I didn’t enjoy talking to her but at the same time I didn’t want to comite a sin and getting into a relationship so I kindly requested from her to stop talking.. a little bit she came and asked why and I told her unless I’m gonna marry you I’m not looking to have a conversation. She asked me to marry her which we did. It was fast… (choufa right after ramadan and 2 months ago fatha(with 3a9d) only since we are both young and even if we have decent salary we both agreed to not spend a fortune and be in debt for pointless night)
Right after, that problems started happening… my mom asked to divorce her because of some silly reasons I didn’t find it logical so I told my mother that she is wrong and I won’t be doing that.
It did have an impact on our marriage specially that I’m abroad and we still haven’t been together nor done anything but we managed to always talk things off at the end of the day. All though we have our differences we also have a lot thing in common and we are very compatible.
She became more and more open to me and started to talk more and more about her past.
I personally never dated and tried to avoid it as best as I could even though I got sometimes too close to certain women we never really were dating.
On the other hand she was raised in an environment that had let’s say a bit of do whatever, she had many male friends and dated a guy for 7 years… many of those male friends and her ex wanted to marry her but at that time she didn’t want to...
I understand everyone has his past specially when raised in an environment that mixing boys and girls/dating is the norm. But I feel somehow weird about it.
I didn’t want to do the research on her since to me it’s not something I see right (many people flagged this as wrong but none of their arguments convinced me).
Though tbh truth be told. If she came to me and I knew all of this about her in the first place I wouldn’t have asked her to get married.
I understand each one has a different past and each one has his own mistakes I myself did many mistakes in the past but all of this makes me a little be uncomfortable at the moment.
I could give more details if needed but I would like to keep whats private private.
Just seeking outside perspective.
Thank you.
May Allah bless you all.
What if I spend my whole life waiting for things to get better and they never do?
What if everyone I love eventually finds someone better than me?
What if I’m only remembered because I was there, not because I actually mattered?
What if I never become the person I always thought I would be?
What if I’m surrounded by people and still end up completely alone?
What if the best years of my life have already passed and I didn’t even notice?
What if I’m easy to love temporarily but impossible to love permanently?
What if I leave no impact on anyone’s life after I’m gone?
What if I keep pretending I’m okay until I forget what actually being okay feels like?
What if I’m not meant for anything special and I’m just trying to convince myself that I am?
،انا لست طبيبا لا استطيع اعطائك رأيي او معالجتك
،انا لست طيارا لا استطيع اعطائك رأيي او ان اقود الطائرة
انا لست استاذ في الدين لكن سأعطيك رأيي ان الخمر حلال
I’m just done of this insecure people who have to make your life harder to feel better about themselves! 💔
وَلَا تَتَّبِعِ الْهَوَىٰ فَيُضِلَّكَ عَن سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ
,لا تكن ذا هوى تقضم من الدين ما تهواه نفسك فمن تتبع رخص العلماء فقد تزندق
لاتكن ذا هوى بل كن من الذين قالوا :
وَآخَرُونَ اعْتَرَفُوا بِذُنُوبِهِمْ خَلَطُوا عَمَلًا صَالِحًا وَآخَرَ سَيِّئًا عَسَى اللَّهُ أَن يَتُوبَ عَلَيْهِمْ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ
ربي يهدينا أجمعين يا الخاوة و السلام عليكم
Hey,I’ve been debating whether to post this or not. It’s honestly more of a vent than a search for solutions, because a part of me feels like it’s already given up.
I’m a 20-year-old female, and I’ve lived with continuous abuse and violence for as long as I can remember. Even so, it feels like I haven't really lived at all. My memories of childhood are blurry and disjointed, but I know there wasn't any happiness,just violence, bullying, and harassment. Between the ages of 10 and 13, I was harassed by three different men: a neighbor, and two brothers who each owned local sewing shops. I never told my family because they were abusive themselves, so I carried it all alone.
Lately, I’ve been having recurring nightmares about a predator going after a little girl while everyone stands by, unable or unwilling to save her—including me. I thought about reporting those men to the police, but I have no physical evidence, I’ve never seen a therapist, and I live in a very traditional, strict environment where speaking out would only bring more harm to me. It breaks my heart knowing other children might be suffering the same way while I stay silent, but I feel completely powerless.
Yesterday, it hit me just how repetitive and unending this life is. I'm constantly hypervigilant—reading people’s expressions and moods, never able to rest or drop my guard. My life doesn't feel like my own. Expressing a disagreement leads to being degraded; refusing a task because I’m exhausted or unable to do it leads to physical beatings. My body is covered in scars I constantly try to hide. Yesterday, I was beaten again, leaving fresh marks on my arms and back, simply because I was too exhausted to do the laundry.
A few months ago, I attempted suicide. I took medication, but as it set in, I became terrified of dying. I survived, only to end up crying and feeling ashamed that I couldn't escape. I had been working so hard to save money and get out, but everything fell apart. Continuing on just feels impossible when you are this bone-weary.
Right now, I am completely drained—whether it's severe burnout from pushing myself too hard or my depression pulling me back down. I feel consumed by guilt for feeling "useless." My mom is grieving the recent death of her mother, and on top of that, we are facing an urgent crisis to reclaim our home after selling it to my uncle, and we need to clear things up and settle the situation (nfarghohalo w nkhrjo). I want to be there to support her, but I have nothing left inside to give.
I’m just so incredibly tired
Eh😮💨I wanna die
I went to a neurologist around 10 days ago and he prescribed me gabapentin for my nerve pain but it's barely doing anything. I'm not sure how I'm not supposed to kill myself when I have to put up with living in this broken body every moment of every day.
Why are harassment and sexual-related incidents becoming more common in Algeria? It seems that many people in society suffer from sexual repression. Is this a new problem, or has it always existed but become more visible because of the internet and social media? And what can be done
about it?
Let's discuss it.
As the headline says i scratched it when i was backing up the paint is scratched in tiny spots he’ll notice it sooner or later and idk how to tell him i’m in a big fuckery ppl who went through same experience how’d you do it
Most Algerians, and even Arabs on Reddit, don’t see the platform as a place for genuine discussion and different opinions. Instead, they use it as a space to express opinions that their societies might reject. The problem is that some of them attack anyone who disagrees with them, especially people who hold on to their religion and identity, calling them backward or ignorant, while showing uncritical admiration for the West and treating it as the standard of progress. Some even look down on Arabic posts and avoid speaking Arabic themselves, as if using Arabic were something backward. Others attack Islam and blame it for society’s problems, either because of genuine ideological beliefs or because of excessive Westernization and blind influence from Western culture.
هذه الرسالة التي اشتهرت و نفع الله بها كثيرا من الخلق كتبها الشيخ رحمه الله من أولها إلى آخرها في فراش المرض و كان رحمه الله يعاني من آلام في رأسه حتى أن الأطباء منعوه من القراءة و الكتابة. قراءة صفحتين من هذه الرسالة كل يوم أو الإستماع إلى شرح لها سوف يغير في ذهن القارئ منضوره إلى كثير من الأمور و يبصره بحقيقة ما هو ضالة كل إنسان... السعادة.