u/ThornWarden61

AITAH For Not Telling My Father I'm Pregnant?

Hey Waffles, it's been a minute. You have all given such good advice and I'm back again for some guidance.

If you need the backstory on my relationship with my father, please read my post history. But a tldr on our relationship is: I am No contact, and he's a POS.

Anyway, I am very excited to be 5 and a half months pregnant! After trying for many years, everything is looking great (fingers crossed).

My question to you is, would I be the AH if I never told him? Does a grandparent have a right to know they have a grandchild?

Being NC with my father, I am being pressured from all sides (except my husband who is very strongly against the idea) to let him know.

My husband supports me completely, but the guilt-tripping from other family members is getting exhausting.

Do toxic parents automatically earn the right to be grandparents just because of shared DNA? AITAH for keeping this from him entirely?

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u/ThornWarden61 — 5 days ago