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▲ 13 r/Fencing

How to help kids improve mental toughness/ stamina?

My 11 yo just fenced his first tournament of the season yesterday, and the first where he was bumped into the age group that uses full-sized weapons. Going in, I cautioned him to temper his expectations because I knew he'd be one of the youngest / shortest- that he should just focus point by point and learn what he can, win or lose, and it didn't matter if he didn't make top 8.

There were 2 pools, and he surprised me by being focused and winning every one of his pool bouts, with multiple bouts against older boys a full head taller than him. He ended up winning his pool with a +15 touch differential, and being seeded 2nd overall (other pool winner had +16 touches). A bye for the first DE, a win in the next round. But this tournament had a Hoffnungslauf (2nd chance round after round of 16), meaning he then had to wait and face the winner of that. By quirk of numbers or whatever, he ended up having to fence the same kid, for the third time in the quarters (one he beat 5-0 in pool and 10-6 in round of 16). And I don't know, it's like my kid was maybe running on adrenaline that reached its end, because he just somehow checked out and fell apart. The other kid scored 2 quick touches, and my kid who had been calm in his earlier bouts even if he wasn't initially leading just got frustrated. I saw half way through he was in tears, but I really don't know why or when in the bout he started to cry. He didn't recover and ended up losing 10-8 and was devastated because that meant he missed the podium. The other kid is a year older and fair play to him for sticking with it and third time the charm to beat mine. But I feel like he didn't really win it, more that my kid lost it because he ran out of stamina. Of course my son was very upset, and it has been and is difficult to get him to properly process his losses as he gets very emotional.

I waited until today to ask him what he thought happened, how he felt different in the last bout, but he says he doesn't know. I feel like he probably got tired (also, it was really hot 35 C / 95 F outside, no AC in hall), and maybe he just doesn't have the mental / emotional maturity to stick out long days. Also, instead of focusing on how well he did in the pools and that I think he should be proud of his overall performance, he seems to only focus on the fact that he lost the last bout and missed the podium. So how do I help him? Is it about stamina? Is it something that gets better with age / experience, or is there something specific sports psychology wise that we can do to help him?

Thanks for any insight!

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u/Thriftbook_collector — 4 days ago

Can non roll bags be upgraded with wheels?

My son's coach just found an old, but still in good condition, large fencing bag in his basement and gifted it to my son. The problem is that it is large and unwieldy. He takes public transport (including underground) to and from training 3 days a week, which includes a 10 minute walk from our apartment to the station and another few minutes walk from the station to training hall. Which is why he currently uses a sport duffel that can be worn as a backpack along with a separate weapon sling.

My son is super proud and excited to have been chosen to receive it and is dead set on using it. It isn't designed to be carried as a backpack. It might be more manageable if it had wheels, but a quick Google search seems to indicate a non roll bag can't be retrofitted because it doesn't have a stiff end plate or internal structure to support wheels. Is that really the case, or is there a way we can convert it to a roll bag?

Thanks for any help / ideas!

ETA - he's 11 and on the small size for his age. He takes public transport on his own, so has to be able to manage the kit bag on his own.

u/Thriftbook_collector — 17 days ago
▲ 207 r/Fencing

Uhlmann fencing going out of business

My kid's club received this letter from Uhlmann to announce they'll be closing. A little surprised as they are still posting on Instagram like business as usual.

u/Thriftbook_collector — 21 days ago

2026 World Championships - how many correctly predicted winners?

I followed the results of the individual world championships because I entered this PBT promotion where you predict the winners of each individual category, and if you get at least 1 correct, you are entered to win this custom LEGO fencing set. I only predicted Sera Song correctly. Granted, I'm not steeped in fencing knowledge because I only started generally following after my kid started fencing a bit ago, but I feel like half of the winners (Men's Epee and both Sabre categories) are quite unexpected. But maybe not to people who are more knowledgeable. So just curious if others had predicted winners and/or they think this is typical of world championships.

u/Thriftbook_collector — 24 days ago

NEPS screws for Epee

I feel like I've read several past posts that recommend upgrading to NEPS screws, but are they no longer a thing for Epee? They don't seem to be readily available where we're at, nor is the specialized screwdriver.

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u/Thriftbook_collector — 3 months ago

Sloth 🦥

First attempt at a sloth and first time using pipe cleaner as an armature base. I have a lot to learn about how to effectively use pipe cleaners /wires / bases. It probably needs some claws, but I'm feeling a bit too lazy to do that at the moment, which actually tracks 🦥😅

u/Thriftbook_collector — 3 months ago

What inspired you to start felting?

I am learning felting because my kid took a workshop last year (when he was 9), where he made the Totoro. He liked it so much, he asked to return the next day and made the Eevee (that one he had a little help). After that, we bought supplies so that he could continue felting at home, and these are all pieces he made. So I figured I should learn, too 😅. What are your (or your kid's) origin stories?

u/Thriftbook_collector — 3 months ago

My kid fences, and I wanted to make a fencing themed craft for him and his teammates. I'd originally thought to try to crochet something, but I'm too beginner and fencing is too niche to find a pattern I can do easily. I'm also quite a beginner felter, but at least it's easier to make a prototype, and primary kids aren't too critical😅. If anyone has suggestions for easy fencing themed projects for DIY gifts, happy to take them!

u/Thriftbook_collector — 4 months ago
▲ 151 r/Fencing

First attempt (and still learning) at felting a little fencer for my kid's fencing teammates 🤺. I wanted to try to crochet something, but fencing is too niche to find easy beginner patterns. If anyone has easy crafts to make for fencing kids, please share! p.s. the red are All-star patches, not blood 😅

u/Thriftbook_collector — 4 months ago