u/ThrowRA_4580

My 34F partner 35M has condoms saved in his amazon cart

I 34F have been with my partner 35M almost 7 years. We have 4 children, 2 are his from a previous relationship.

It's my step-childs birthday next week and I needed to order something for her from amazon. My partner has prime which he's told me I can use for the free shipping, I always pay for what I order, I use it extremely infrequently, maybe twice a year.

I went on to order the child's present only to find a big box of branded condoms saved in the basket and a search for a sex toy he's never expressed any kind of interest in with me which can't be used with a condom. We don't use condoms, never have and I thought sex wise we had good communication about what we like or would like to try together.

I panicked, moved it to "save for later" ordered what I needed then put it back in the basket. He would have been notified that I'd ordered something once I'd finished.

Now here's where it gets weird, about 30 mins after I did that I got a flurry of messages and a missed call from him while he's at work (very rare) asking if we were okay and being overly affectionate. I asked is there a reason he feels like we wouldn't be okay and he simply replied he had a feeling in his stomach and I left it at that for the time being. Since then he's been really clingy and affectionate, considerably more than usual so now my stomach is telling me he's unfaithful or at the very least thinking about it.

I've no idea how to broach this with him and I'm desperately trying to think of a legitimate reason he might have them but can't think of one. Wtf do I do? Can anyone think of a legitimate reason for this? Has anyone "accidentally added" something to their amazon basket before? Or am I being naive here?

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u/ThrowRA_4580 — 11 hours ago