Aio for calling my girlfriend's behavior insufferable?
My girlfriend (24F) of two years had been a vegetarian for a big part of her life and we started dating with me having no issue about it since her food is hers and my food is mine. In these two years i have not tried to push her to eat meat and we had a lot of talks which she started about being a vegetarian and whatnot. This habit stayed along with talks of vegetarianism on how i "have potential" to become a vegetarian even though i made it clear that i do not understand the purpose of it and talks of how i could hecome a vegetarian if i wanted.
Recently she came up to me saying that she wants to be a vegan and my response was just a simple okay since thats her food and not mine. Fridge is full of vegan stuff now and we keep getting into a vegan talk every two days and i keep telling her to stop it yet it keeps going.
I dont know how much more clear i can make myself that i am not interested in her vegan talks because i believe we are meant to eat meat. I refused to watch a documentary she wanted me to watch to "see if i still eat meat after it" and i did say that i am not becoming vegan ever which i have no clue if she got it but i think she did since she told me that her plan now is to encourage her mother towards veganism. Obviously i told her to let her mother be and i have been telling her to stop talking so much about her veganism since it is getting unbearable.
If she cares about the animals so much that she wants me to be vegan why did she date me in the first place? I genuinely have no issue with her being vegan now other than the constant talks with her acting like i am horrible for wanting to eat meat. She says that she is not like those vegans but she is close and even though she says that she is not trying to force me into it i do feel like she is pushing it a bit too much. Am i overreacting for being mad and callling this behavior insufferable that she has to bring up her veganism like its her whole personality?