Sex during separation?
So, my wife and i separated a couple weeks ago and plan to be separated for 90 days. She initiated the separation. We are actively in counseling and are working to restore the relationship. She came over last night to talk and we ended up having sex. Real, passionate, connecting sex.
The sex was great and we really connected in ways we haven't been recently. So, went to see our counselor this morning and she recommended no sex...at least for a while.
Anybody have any experience with this situation? Thoughts?
Selfishly, i would like to continue to have sex with my wife when/if she is up for it for obvious reasons, but also as it seemed to soften both of us up a little when we met for counseling this morning. In other words, the connection last night, contributed to a more calm and collaborative counseling session. On the other hand, if sex is going to delay our progress in some way, i would give it up for a period of time for that progress to happen.