Update: 3 - - - Pregnant wife (f29) has been texting her sister about going to her house, deleting the pregnancy then claiming she miss_carried. I (M31) can only think the child isn't mine. Is there any other possible explanation?
I received the external drive today and I will try to plug it in tonight. My wife has still been by my side from the time I get home until I go to bed. I asked her when she was going for her next Doctor's appointment. She just looked at me for what seemed like an hour but was probably 30 seconds. It was a long pause, then she told me she was waiting for call from her primary care doctor to get a referral.
Her eyes told me she is lying. She never has been a good liar.
I asked how her sister was doing since we hadn't heard from them for awhile. She told me she has been texting her sister every once in a while, that they are ok. Then my wife said she hasn't seen her sister in such a long time and misses her. I really wanted to tell her she needs to jump on a plane and go see her right away before the baby comes, but I know if she would have agreed, I would have lost it
My in-house council referred me to a great family law attorney and I was able to speak to him for about 10 minutes. He listened when I asked if there was anything I could do to stop her. He said he could try and get a court order forbidding her from terminating the pregnancy but that the likelihood being successful is extremely low. He asked me if I could save the baby, would I want to have my wife in my life for at least 18 yrs, possibly more if the child attends college. I thought about it for a few seconds then had to admit that I hadn't really thought about it. I have an appointment to see him in his office on Friday. He was going to email me a list of things I need to bring.
This whole thing feels so surreal. Like I'm watching someone else's nightmare.