u/Timely-Bicycle-2271

Hi thinking of moving but wanted an idea of what the area is like. Especially if you don't drive thanks

Hi in an apartment near here soon and wondering if there is a link or anything. We are self catering and don't drive

Looking for some outside perspectives.

I’ve been seeing a guy casually for a while. We get on well, enjoy spending time together and there’s definitely affection there. However, there are a few things I’m unsure about.

He has erectile and delayed ejaculation difficulties which affect our sex life. We’ve recently been discussing whether it’s something that could improve with things like GP support, lifestyle changes and some gradual sexual retraining exercises. He seems open to talking about it, but I’m not sure how motivated he is to actively work on it. I do suffer with mental health and have few friends I've always found it hard. So a romantic connection is important to me. Also the sexual release I got with previous guys especially my ex fwb who was also autistic adhd.

He is really happy to do foreplay, will manage to get hard sometimes, but it goes soft soon, he's quite unfit too. He can only come wanking on his back. I find this a bit off putting. My ex more like Fwb of 8 months but did lots together and ended in Feb was only 28. The sed was really great. I don't know why I have a thing for a guy coming in me. I'm more into penetration sex.

I’m also questioning compatibility more generally. I’m not as physically attracted to him as I’ve been to some previous partners. He doesn’t currently work, has limited money. He's 42 and im 39. My ex was 28 more fwb for 8 months. He had no trouble satisfying me sexually but didn't want a relationship we no longer speak.

He says his out of work, fitness issues are due to late diagnosed adhd and autistic. He's not depressed. I'm also late diagnosed as autistic and adhd but managed to find a job that works for me. I don't love it but my pay is reasonable.

At the same time, he’s kind, spends time with me, and makes an effort to stay in touch.

My question is: how do you tell the difference between genuine incompatibility and simply comparing someone unfairly to a previous relationship? Have any of you had attraction grow over time when the person was a good match in other ways?

Interested in honest opinions.attraction grow over time when the person was a good match in other ways?

Interested in honest opinions.

What do people have for breakfast? Is a protein shake and cereal okay? I want to make the most if my medication but I'm usually a cereal person. I could she a Preston shake but not sure that's enough? I take 50 mg when I wake up. Then 20 mg around lunch time. I also have two coffee a day and one red bull. But I'm going to try and cut the red bull out: