Is it over if I have a one off clingly moment ?
I (24F) have been seeing a guy (27M) for a few months now. Overall it has been good he is very nice and we usually see eachother about once a week. We are both leaving our city in a month and since it is so new it won’t really become anything so we’ve both approached it as a “summer fling” so to speak. We met through mutual friends so also spend a lot of time with each others friends.
This past weekend we went to a friends place for a while (like 8 hours) I gave him his space and let him spend the night with his friends only interacting here or there. At the end of the night he announced he was leaving and I asked him if we could go together, he said no and that he was tired which I (in the moment) had a hard time taking as an answer, trying to plead with him. We were both quite drunk and I Eventually up but was likely visibly a bit upset as he also Irish exited me the night before from being too drunk. I could tell he was annoyed by me and I’m really worried I ruined a good thing when we only have a couple weeks left to spend together anyway.
Other than last night I haven’t really been clingy at all with him and things have been going well, since he is leaving soon I wanted to spend time with him but I’m fearful I just ruined it. Would a man be scared by one time or is it fine if it isn’t a pattern.
What would you feel in this situation, is it best to just let it fizzle since it was ending soon yesterday and not reach out again.