u/TinaTrax

Bored and looking for some interesting conversation.
Tell me your wildest conspiracy theory or something

Edit: I added this at the bottom but I will add it to the top too: Okay yes I’m paying her back and cutting off contact. Thank you for centering me

I (32f) was invited on a trip by “Marcy” (33f) about 6 ish months after we first met.

She said “all I would need to do is help with gas & cover [my] food & spending money” I agreed.

This was an 8 hour one way drive. 4 night trip.

I love travelling, I’m an easy going traveller esp if it’s someone else’s trip that they invited me on. I knew Marcy was less easy going & still decided to go because at the time, I liked her, I knew she was a bit abrasive at times, but I thought vacation Marcy might be chill. This proved to be wrong.

I don’t want to taint your opinion of her but the trip ended with me scream-cry venting to my partner for almost 2 hours on TOP of 2 back to back therapy sessions that I had booked 2 days into the trip for the day after we got home.

The trip was between pay days & don’t recall gas prices at the time, but I gave $320 for gas, and had about $100 extra dollars which granted wasn’t a lot for a 5 days but Marcy said no worries, if we share costs, she will just put it on her card and I will pay half of whatever the card charges were later on. Okay great.

I bought my liquor for the trip & had brought my own party favours 🍃(as did she).

She ended up covering a couple meals (nothing crazy expensive, it was a small town we were vacationing in) & maybe a handful of beach items.

At the end she said her charges were ~$600, so $300ish I owed. I had etransferred $100 once I had gotten paid.

After this trip, we hung out exactly one other time, for her birthday party, before we had a falling out a couple days after.

Now here is where I might be an asshole. I had to have two back to back therapy sessions ($156/session) because of this trip, specifically Marcy.
So would I be the asshole if I didn’t pay back the $200 because of the therapy sessions I had to pay for?

Edit: okay yes I’m paying her back and cutting off contact. Thank you for centering me