u/Tiny-Vast-1278

My spouse might be trans

Bit of a throwaway account cause I don't want my spouse finding this.

My (cis F) spouse (MtF?) has been toying with the idea of being gender fluid, and it's leaning more towards being trans. For me, this would not be a problem since I'm bi, but I'm significantly worried how this will impact my "side of the family" and my personal relationships. I come from an incredibly catholic and way behind in trans views country, there is a chance that some of my close family members and friends will not understand this and create a hostile environment for my partner, I want to be as supportive as possible but my anxiety is through the roof. I have already sacrificed a big chunk of my life to be with my spouse and I don't know if our relationship could survive family conflict. plus I obviously love my partner and want them to be as happy as they can be and I'm worried that if their transition ruins our marriage they will revert and not live their truth.
I don't really know what the point of this post is but maybe to hear from other people who have gone through similar journeys I guess.

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u/Tiny-Vast-1278 — 2 days ago