u/TinyDumbo

Currently in the market for a RAV4, Limited , ideally in black. We visited a bigger dealership and the salesperson told us for the limited trim it would be less of a wait, around 2 months, 3 at most. However 2 other dealerships we visited said it would be 6-8 months (to note, those were smaller dealerships). At one of those smaller dealerships the salesperson mentioned he used to work at a dealership that their practice was to overpromise and say 2-3 months when in reality it was longer and they prioritized fulfillment for clients that took more expensive add-ons.

Just looking for any recent experience of anyone who has purchased a RAV4 in the Limited Trim in Ontario. Not sure if to trust the 2-3 months or should we be expecting a longer wait.

Not sure if this is the correct sub for this!

Husband (37) and I (33) have been together for 7 years and have always talked about having 2 kids. In 2024 we unexpectedly fell pregnant a few months ahead of when we agreed to start trying. That ended up being a loss and I did therapy to help overcome the grief. We got pregnant again later in 2024 and are parents to our sweet sweet 1 year-old.

For context, prior to kids, husband and I did have some bad habits where we would stay up late watching TV and be tired the morning after. We joked after we had our child that we had been preparing for sleeplessness all along. My husband does work from home, a pretty demanding corporate job and I am on maternity leave. As a cause of this, I’d say about 95% of the childcare falls on me- all wake-up’s, feeds, etc. with the exception of some morning shifts he will take on on weekends. To be honest, it doesn’t bother me that much because I know he’s working hard to allow me to be on an extended maternity leave.

However recently my husband has started saying he is so exhausted he can’t fathom the idea of another child when we previously agreed to have 2 close in age if possible. It truly bugs me however that his exhaustion is not from our baby because he doesn’t do much to help, but from his lifestyle choices but is now an excuse to not have another baby.

I loved being pregnant and I love our baby so much. I feel like I truly had not thought this would be my one and only pregnancy and child. How do I grow to accept that I may not have another pregnancy and may not have the family I’ve always envisioned and learn to accept that the compromise we’re making here is really just him getting what he wants. To be honest, our overall relationship as well has definitely taken a nosedive since having our baby so it pains me to also think we shouldn’t even have another but it sucks that I’m not willingly making that decision.