u/Tiny_Eggplant_4835

Catholic male here. I tend to be more introverted and can be a little nervous in social situations, but I do make an effort to put myself out there and meet new people.

Recently, I've attended a few Church dating events. One of them led to a follow-up coffee date, which I considered our first real date. Overall, it was a positive experience, but after a while the conversation started to feel somewhat formal. It seemed like both of us were mainly thinking of questions to ask rather than having a natural flow to the conversation.

Afterward, I walked her to her car and gave her a hug goodbye. I was hopeful, but she later decided she wanted to move on. Looking back, I wonder if the awkwardness of the conversation may have been a turnoff.

That said, I also felt that if we had continued seeing each other, things might have become smoother as we got more comfortable with one another. Am I being naïve in thinking that?

I'm also curious about others' experiences. Is it generally better when a friendship develops first before dating, rather than going on a date with someone you barely know? And do most women expect there to be a strong connection or chemistry right away on the first date, or is it normal for that to develop over time?

I'd appreciate any thoughts or advice.

Hello everyone,

I recently enlisted in the Coast Guard Reserve as a Health Services Technician (HS) and will be coming in as an E-3. I currently hold both a bachelor's degree and a master's degree,(sadly did not qualify for officer school) and one of my long-term goals is to continue developing my healthcare career.

I'm considering the possibility of using my Coast Guard service and education benefits to eventually pursue Physician Assistant (PA) school or potentially another healthcare-related profession in the future. At this point, I'm still exploring options and trying to learn more about what opportunities may be available.

I was hoping to get advice from those who have experience as an HS, either active duty or reserve, or from anyone who has used Coast Guard education benefits to further their education.

Hello, I am going to DEPOT in August 9th. I am in moderate physical shape but I struggle with swimming efficiently without feeling out of breath. Any tips, advice, or additional information about DEPOT and how to train for swimming. Thanks