had another argument with my boyfriend (29). about the same thing.

there’s this one thing I ask him for, for MONTHS.

”my brain don’t work like that. I forget”

and apparently I am nagging him about that one simple thing.

what I ask of him: after you finish showering - put the shower head down. its high and inconvenient to put it down”

I wrote on tiles with pencil to remind him, drew arrows and still - nope.

promised he won’t even touch it anymore - three days in a row - forgot and left it up.

i begged to put it down, two people out of three in this apartment need it lower. It’s inconvenient for me (short person) to get in the bath, grab it and put it lower.

no - „my brain don’t work like that, I forget.

and he said I’m giving him shit cause I nag him about it.

I tell him he’s not considerate of me and my daughter, he said it has nothing to do with consideration , he just can’t remember to put it down. I said I’m begging for months!!! at this point it’s disrespectful if I ask every day and he still fails to do so. that one little thing shouldnt mean so much to me but it does.

he walked back in the room from the balcony where we argued and send me a WhatsApp messag:

”Things you nag about

Shower head

Not shutting front door fully

Forgetting my towel

Letting doors slam

Leaving toothbrush on the bath

Not shutting curtains when it's hot

Leaving tissue around

I'm sure there's more. You nag about a lot of things.”

to what I replied:

”Fine.

Leave the door open, if anyone robs me - fuck it.

Forget your towel and dry yourself with air.

Let the doors slam and brake even. Who cares, it’s my deposit that will be affected.

Toothbrush - I asked about it once as it’s in dust, but if you like it - your choice.

Curtains? You’re right, why wouldn’t we be happy to boil in the apartment during heatwaves - it’s lovely to sweat like a motherfucker in the room.

Tissues? If my dog chockes on your nose liquid- who cares. It’s just a dog.

How dare i have something to say about safety, comfort, flat condition or bacteria’s on your toothbrush - clearly I’m mental.

I will NEVER say anything anymore about anything at all. You may now live in peace.”

penny for your thought.