How to move forward with to uncooperative/unreliable absent father
Child's father doesn't want to use the coparenting app we do not have anything court ordered, in our situation that would do more harm than good. I'm not really sure where to go from here he says he wants to be involved but it has to be on his terms, he uses God and that I'm in the matrix as the reason. I wanted to use our family wizard because there have been too many times when he's run late or wrote down wrong day/timelocation. I'm trying to limit confusion by having this system in place for supervised visits, but we can't even do that! We have routines and.. I have work and our child has activities, it takes quite a bit to coordinate for an absent father. A random friend outing for dinner because we have an open evening is easy, but for an absent father it just sends the wrong message entirely. He pulls the guilt card calls me all sorts of things like that warlock, devil etc., and that does nothing but make me even more on edge because what has happened to him? What side of the internet is he on? This is so frustrating and honestly scary because there's no way to work with it besides just leaving the front door unlocked so he can come and go as he pleases. During our breakup, I was a little more lenient because I thought we'd be able to sort something out amicably, but I later realized he would just like to come and go as he pleases, and that didn't work for obvious reasons. I just don't know what to do
If he wants to be involved great! But it's been 1.5yrs and he's blaming me for that time lapse when my response has been the same