how to contact chain of command
and is it even worth it to in this situation?
if so, how would i go about this? the only evidence i have exists in screenshots of our conversations and maybe in some recordings.
i am a civilian and married to a service member who sexually assaulted me (he named it this before i did) months ago and had done something adjacent months prior to that. i have not said anything about it for fear of retaliation and also of getting him in trouble because i do care for him deeply, and i feel like if anything actually happened to him he'd try to harm himself on account of things he's said. i'm 20 weeks pregnant and a lot has happened since that has made me feel deep regret about not speaking up and i'm in the long overdue process of trying to leave.
whenever he was in an "apologetic" mood he told me he was so guilty that he self-reported and his leadership didn't care whatsoever, so i am extra dissuaded by this too.