u/Traditional-Ant-2494

I don’t want to be afraid in my last moments

I’m young but this has just been a worry of mine for as long as I can remember. I grew up being taught about hell and got the idea that more people would go to hell or at least purgatory than heaven, although I don’t follow the belief system I grew up in anymore. when my grandpa passed a few years ago I started seeking out information about hospice and the things caregivers see their loved ones experience at the end.in ways it makes me feel better and I hope that what Ive learned can help me be present when my grandma passes. I’ve heard so many beautiful stories of loved ones coming to bring the dying to the afterlife but none of people being afraid at the end and for some reason that scares me more. in my brain not everyone can be comforted in the afterlife because some people are more bad than good, so if no one is scared at all it must just be a figment of imagination. i suppose my ultimate question today is do hospice patients sometimes have deathbed visions of bad things or only ever good.

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