My girlfriend and I have been having issues relating to responsibilities and needs. AITJ?
Recently me and my girlfriend had a big argument because i felt like my needs were not being met when i was constantly trying to meet hers. I have felt this way for some time, so when she asked me if i could write two essays for her I put my foot down and said no. Thats when I told her how I felt, and it devolved into a really bad argument.
Essentially, what I was trying to say is that I feel like the things that have made me feel loved in this relationship (physical touch, compliments, spending time in person) have stopped, and that I have tried really hard to meet hers needs, and do things that make her feel loved without her giving the same effort. Which has left me exhausted, and unwilling to do certain things for her.
She explained that she rarely give compliments to people, and that its a rare occassion when she does. She also said that she was uncomfortable with physical touch (though ive seen her do it with other people), and that she cant give me the same effort that i give because shes busier than me. Additionally, she said that she was too busy to spend a lot of time with me in person.
TLDR: I feel like my needs arent being met even though Im constantly trying to meet hers.
AITJ?